Sunday, December 16, 2007

A lesson from Mother


Hi folks. This blog is in a different format. Mike has written this blog after a reality check from the cyclone that devastated Bangladesh.
The past month has been a bit of a blur. I was away working on the mega yacht for 3 weeks while Mike single handed through the Grenadines and up to St. Lucia enjoying some close hauled sails some of which in 20-25 knots of wind. He has been having a blast in my absence, but insists that he would hate to be a solo cruiser as he missed me..hmmm! I on the other hand was busy.My new favorite phrase is “Mike…someone has to work so you can enjoy this type of lifestyle”…it’s a good one, huh! We took the big boat from St. Lucia to Fort Lauderdale, having a 2 day charter for Thanksgiving in Eleuthra, Bahamas. I am now preparing to leave tomorrow for another 3 weeks in Abacos, Bahamas for another charter. Mike will keep busy as well while I’m gone, being skipper on a catamaran visiting the Grenadines for 6 days and a couple of other odd jobs. Life is busy at the moment, but we’re enjoying being busy in St. Lucia.
Once I return we’ll be on the go getting Meggie ready for Antigua and hopefully visiting with some friends. Anyway…here is Mike with his first blog and we’ll be in touch after the new year. We want to wish everyone a very merry Christmas and all the best in the new year.



On Friday November 15th, 2007 a tropical cyclone slammed into Bangladesh. Storm surge of 16 feet tall pushed along by 130 knots (250 km/hour) winds swept the streets, which are only 15 feet above sea level. I need not describe the aftermath, other than some 30 thousand people lost all that was dear to them if not their lives. Events such as this one hit close to home for me as all we have apart from each other, friends and family is our little boat Meggie, which at times like this makes us very aware of the forces of mother nature.
In addition to Kylie’s entry about our brush with hurricane season, we will always remember Felix reaching Category 1 status. This was just one more lesson we have learned and overcome out here. That is of course when mother nature or respectfully mother ocean wants to show her fury, her power or to prove who is really master out here. No man, woman, army or government can stop her.
Now…for the most part, life aboard Meggie for us has been absolute bliss. At times magical and at times stressful. These islands and waters are a privilege to spend time in, however it wasn’t for free. Against headwinds and seas we earned every mile to get here. And once again in doing so gained a real respect for the ocean along with ourselves and our boat. Certainly living and cruising for nearly a year and a half has changed the way we view life and what is important in the world and also the people within it. We have met so many beautiful and interesting people, I have lost count. Not just cruisers but people who live life completely different from how we live in the western world. During our 4 months in Grenada we learned how money, cars and houses just don’t mean much. Time spent with friends and family, peace and respect mean the most. My good friend Davis age 24, talented carpenter for instance, buys all the food for his family, works eight hours a day, has a 1 hour bus ride to and from work and also raises pigs and crops at home. He, always has a smile on his face! All of the friends we made in Grenada tell us the stories about the devastation of hurricanes Ivan and Emily and how they effectedtheir lives. All the leaves off trees gone, trees down, houses blown away and no power, an entire yard of cruising boats destroyed, most of whom had little or no insurance. But, the people came together in a time of devastation to help one another and to rebuild their beautiful country.
In Grenada the look on an old mans face is not one of old age, but of a slow paced lifestyle with simple pleasures and few daily stresses. I believe that in the great quest for progression and development in parts of the world, a lot can be said for simplicity and quality in one’s life. Slow down or speed up…enjoy it, be healthy and don’t let life slip by.
As for us we intend to keep on sailing. We want to see the western Caribbean after the Antigua classic regatta in April…of course Meggie will be looking her best for this event, as will her crew of Kylie, myself accompanied by Paul and Leanne Sandiford. Good times, no doubt. End of April, beginning of May, we intend to do a longer passage from Antigua to somewhere on the southern shore, perhaps Venezuela, Bonaire or Curacao stopping briefly and then carry on to Columbia or Panama where we intend to spend next hurricane season. Two things are for sure…great sailing and a whole new adventure. We are very well prepared both for sailing and for hard core anchoring for a major blow. The Caribbean is not without its risks, but is it worth it? Absolutely!
So until next time,
Mike and Kylie

13 comments:

Eben&Jordan said...

hey friends, you guys are so freaking cool! your awesome people and i am glad i was able to meet both of you.
kylie i am glad you are bring home the bacon, as you said someone has to do it.mike....come on. lol
it is stormy outside my window right now 25-30 gusting to lots more.
i am reading the godforsaken sea right now, holy crap!
looks like your stil catching fish mike that is great... is that a bonefish? i here they are really smart.
hope you are both well your in my thuohgts often
peace be with you and merry christmas
Jordan.

Anonymous said...

Hi Guys: Mike...an inspirational, heart-felt entry. I couldn't agree more...enjoy every day! It takes some a lifetime to learn that lesson and others never figure it out. I also agree with the previous post...you guys are awesome!

Can't wait til April...116 days...but who's counting?!!!

Take care, Paul

Anonymous said...

Hi guys your both looking wonderful
still miss your face. and sorry I
missed your calls Mike but thanks
for thinking of me on my big 50
Just to bring a grin we have already about 3 fet of snow and its only the middle of December
Oh yeh guess who will soon be a daddy thats right your old friend
Barry and Tracy due on may 2,2008
so thats our exciting news I hope you both stay well and happy and think of home once and a while and remember we love you both and to see those smiling faces is really great. Merry Christmas and love and luck for 2008
Sue

Anonymous said...

Hi there "ex-neighbours"

Very impressed Mike.. Your work ethic and commitment (both of you) have always impressed us. Now we are seeing the philosopher in you. What other talents are you hiding??

Many of us back here, "trapped" in the seemingly never ending task of 'building for a brighter future', can only imagine the joys and challenges of a simpler, less complicated lifestyle such as yours. Many of us are probably afraid of what we might lose (materialistically) if we ever had the balls to choose a path similar to yours, yet we all envy you. Your courage is inspiring and when it comes to measuring "success", I think you guys are winning...

We are proud to have been your neighbours and hope, one day, to be neighbours again.

Be safe

Jim

Anonymous said...

watch out Kylie, looks like there's a new blogger in town! well said Mike, well said! think you could maybe leave a little less time in between blogs though next time?! that wait between adventures felt like forever! anyway, i'm really glad you guys are still doing great and i can't wait to hear more in the upcoming months. it'll be sad not to see you two at Christmas dinner, but we'll all be sure to have some egg nog for you. we have "sick" amounts of snow here...i wish you could see it (much more impressive than last years green Christmas). well, you guys take care of yourselves and have a Merry Christmas! we'll all be thinking of you.
miss you guys lots,
ashley

Anonymous said...

Merry Christmas guys,

John & Joan
SV Whampoa

Christy ~ Central Air said...
This comment has been removed by the author.
Christy ~ Central Air said...
This comment has been removed by the author.
Mike and Kylie said...

Not sure who Christy is, but please do not leave a message on our blog again. Your "shout out" is not appropriate for our blog. DO NOT post again.

Anonymous said...

Hey Guys! You have finally re-united by now!!!!Mike, you will have to fight for the keyboard and mouse! Take care, have fun and be safe!k&p

Jon van der Horst Bruyn said...

Nice work team, that was a great read! miss and think of you guys heaps, hope your well and say hi to Meggie ;)

Your Bruyn bros ~~__/)~~

oakleyses said...

oakley sunglasses, ugg boots, tory burch outlet, cheap oakley sunglasses, longchamp pas cher, longchamp outlet, louboutin pas cher, tiffany and co, replica watches, michael kors pas cher, polo ralph lauren, polo ralph lauren outlet online, nike free run, longchamp outlet, jordan pas cher, oakley sunglasses, ray ban sunglasses, louis vuitton outlet, louis vuitton, louis vuitton, replica watches, burberry pas cher, tiffany jewelry, air max, nike free, ugg boots, uggs on sale, louis vuitton outlet, chanel handbags, nike outlet, ray ban sunglasses, nike roshe, longchamp outlet, oakley sunglasses wholesale, nike air max, ray ban sunglasses, prada handbags, christian louboutin outlet, christian louboutin shoes, oakley sunglasses, christian louboutin, sac longchamp pas cher, nike air max, prada outlet, christian louboutin uk, louis vuitton outlet, jordan shoes, gucci handbags, polo outlet

oakleyses said...

canada goose outlet, louis vuitton, louis vuitton, marc jacobs, canada goose jackets, moncler uk, hollister, swarovski crystal, canada goose, swarovski, moncler, louis vuitton, pandora jewelry, juicy couture outlet, moncler outlet, moncler, canada goose, wedding dresses, karen millen uk, ugg,uggs,uggs canada, thomas sabo, pandora jewelry, ugg pas cher, canada goose outlet, doudoune moncler, juicy couture outlet, toms shoes, coach outlet, pandora charms, canada goose uk, canada goose outlet, moncler, ugg,ugg australia,ugg italia, links of london, moncler, canada goose, montre pas cher, louis vuitton, louis vuitton, pandora uk, ugg uk, supra shoes, replica watches, moncler outlet, ugg